As news of our journey spreads, there seem to be a few common threads across all reactions. Family is the most worried; about finances, logistics, and safety. "I dont mean to offend you, or cross any lines, but can you afford this?", or "How is this really going to work", to "I think it would be wise to wait another day for the roads to improve." Strangers profess their jealousy and desire to attempt something similar themselves. But aside from family and strangers, most responses go something like this... "Wow. 6 months? Where are you going to go? That sounds so fun, but where did this come from?" Some say it fits, and others would never have picked us to set out on this trip. And so I thought I would take a step back and explain exactly where this came from.
I was blessed with parents who instilled in me a wonderful balance of adventure with caution. My mom boldly crosses police lines and walks straight up to Air Force One and asks if we can take a private tour. And my dad, whom we affectionately call Carl (another story), goes by the book and makes sure I remember to buckle up because safety never takes a vacation. And so formed a wild at heart little kid, who started planning for retirement before I enrolled in college. In fact I remember my dad telling me when I was young that if I saved $100 a month from that day until I was 40 I would have a million dollars, and so I set up to save save save. I started MoJo's golf balls, a company that sold golf balls lost on the golf course with my best friend Josh when I was in 4th grade. From that day until Feb 25th, 2011, I pretty much always had some sort of job.
But what never went away was that desire to adventure. I found myself a confused mix of planning and spontaneity, always wanting to take that leap, but having to know where I could land, safely. I could have cut loose from the norm after high school, but I would have spent about 3 weeks independently before having to sheepishly call my parents and ask if I could move back in because I was dead broke. Then after college I was going to go be a ski bum, take some time to myself, and then enter the real world. However God had some other plans. I met this girl, and she was living in Denver, 3 hours from where my bum life was to take place. To make matters worse, during my "test the waters" job hunt, I suddenly came to the conclusion that to get a job, I needed experience, and not experience as a ski tech. If I took a break from life now how far would it set me back? Would I ever be able to get a job.
Okay, so maybe I work for a 2 years, get some experience, and THEN have my adventure. My resume would be filled with experience, and it would be cake getting a job when I was ready to return to reality.
And finally the worlds economy decided to plummet. Fox News kept telling me that EVERYONE was unemployed. People with 500 years of experience were being turned down from the fry line at McD's. And so went my experience plan, I was never going to get to cut loose from the death grip of life.
So there I was, sitting in a grey cube, everyday, crunching and analyzing numbers, wondering what good this experience was doing me. Cels was managing a restaurant, again a good job, but nothing she had dreamt of doing. Not that we didnt like our jobs, but
I knew
I didnt want to be a fund analyst for the rest of my life. I started looking for a way out. I applied to some jobs that I thought were better, but all I found was more of the same. One thing I do have is an unquenchable, sometimes annoying thirst to learn more.
I started reading up on grad school. It was something I had always talked about but those plans were coming to fruition about as quickly as my plans to cut free from life. Unfortunately, grad schools dont admit people straight off a 6 month adventure at the beach and it began to look like i would go straight from school, to work, back to school, and then again back to work. Then came my revelation. If I apply to grad school, I could be admitted as early as February, and then not have to report to school until August. They would never know I wasnt still sitting in my cube everyday, crunching all those numbers.
I had found it, an adventure with a safe landing. And even better I had a wife that was not only willing but excited to accompany me on my path to being a gypsy. We can go straight from school to a job when my degree will have its highest value, and we can cut free for a bit.
So can we afford it? Kinda. Is it scary? Oh Hell Yes! Do we have all the logistics figured out? Not even close. But is it something I have been dreaming about since I was twelve? Yup.
Thats where this all came from.